My counselor always said that when looking at yourself it is better to ask how than why. Why is an unanswerable question. It also has no meaning. Who cares why you behave a certain way. What do you do that keeps leading you down the same path year after year?
When thinking about the subjects covered in my last blog “Begin Again” the question is not why I fail to meet my goals. The question is how I keep missing my goals. Or even better how do I reach my goals. How will lead you to solutions and positive change. Why will just lead you to self abuse and depression.
Why should be left to philosophizing about the nature of existence over a cold beer with good friends.
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